The first principle is that those who are going to get married must make sure of God's perfect will about their union.
It is very necessary to know the importance of knowing God’s will so that you will not treat it lightly.
Today there is much controversy among Christians on this matter. Some emphasize crisis, whereas others emphasize progress. Some consider entering the gate to be the supreme experience, while others assume they may proceed without any need of entering the gate. Both are unbalanced positions. We ought to know that on the one hand, we need to go through a crisis and on the other hand, we need to proceed on the way. Entering the gate and walking in the way are two important principles in the Bible. They must be equally stressed.
FOUR PLANES OF THE SPIRITUAL LIFE - By Watchman Nee
Do All to the Glory of God [Volume 5] - By Watchman Nee